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Choosing your wedding party

Hi everyone! Our new intern, Betsy, has just started with us. She is majoring in Communications at one of the local colleges in Hampton Roads. We are so excited to have her as part of our team. 

We asked her to write her first blog and here it is... Smile

BetseyChoosing your wedding party can be a tricky task. Whether you plan on being surrounded by dozens or just a handful of special people, you  want to choose the ones that mean the most to you. Of course, there’s no right and wrong way to pick your attendants, but looking back years later, these people are those that you could never imagine not having in your wedding. Whether it’s your sister, college roommate, childhood friend, or co-worker,  you will want that person to be a special someone who can rise to the occasion.

Your bridesmaids, and specifically your maid of honor, will traditionally be in charge of numerous tasks, both on your wedding day and months before. Dress shopping, holding the bride’s bouquet during the ceremony, planning or hosting the shower and bachelorette party, bustling the dress and straightening your train, and giving a toast at the reception may be the most obvious duties, but that isn’t where the responsibilities end. You will also want your wedding party on board to help with the less glamorous things as well. Addressing invitations, spreading the word about where you are registered, helping with RSVPs, keeping record of all the gifts, taking care of your gown and keeping you happy and smiling, should also be things that they can gladly and confidently attend to.

What makes your wedding party special? What elements were important to your choices? How did you propose the idea to your attendants? Did you always plan that your sister would be your maid of honor? Does your best friend from middle school win you over with unconditional friendship and make the perfect bridesmaid? Do you know that your old roommate will be the one that will keep you laughing and dancing all night?

E-mail us and tell us your wedding party story. Let us know how your attendants will make your wedding day, and the months leading up to it, so special and you could win free tickets to a night out at The Funny Bone!

Please submit your stories to Stephanie at stephanie@ishafossevents.com by Friday February 15, 2008. The winner will be announced Saturday February 16, 2008 on Wedster. The Funny Bone tickets are good for admission for 14 people.  Coupon cannot be combined with any other discount, promotion, coupon or special event. Offer not valid on Saturdays or special engagements. Shows open to ages 21 and older. Ticket expires February 28, 2008.

 

 


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I have 10 bridesmaids! My matron of honor is my sister, a pretty natural choice especially now with the death of my oldest sister, also my best friend. The rest of the party represent chapters in my life; my best friend from second grade, my best friend from the swim team in middle school, my best friends from high school, my cousin, the only female cousin my age I actually get along with and my new sisters. My wedding is in September and I am beginning to feel the pressure. Each one of these women help keep me sane and make sure I still have hair on my head and nails on my fingers for my big day..:)

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